Figure out if this is a career or hobby, your flight instructor can tailor your experience

Research local flight schools in your area, set up a meeting. Ask lots of questions such as costs, type of fleet and realistic expectations in costs

Take an intro flight to get an idea if the sky is for you, this can save you thousands

Flying 2-4x a week will save you in your overall training costs. Commit to a schedule and stay on top of your training goals.